As animal trainers with a passion for what we do, we possibly know more than most about the pain of losing an animal family member, whether it be one of our own or one with whom we work. How to companion people through this difficult time is rarely seen in any animal training course. This is an unfortunate oversight. Grief comes in many forms and so too do grievers. Having a basic understanding of not only the types of grief that people can encounter but the stages of grief through which many pass will help us support our clients, friends, family and even ourselves through the grieving process. Children and the elderly are differently sensitive to grief and need individual attention to their concerns. That does not discount the complexity of adult grief. Grief counselling is not the job of an animal trainer, but some knowledge of grief and its vagaries may help relieve clients’ anxieties or encourage them to seek further help. Grief is a very personal journey (despite what some in society believe of it) and there is no right or wrong way to grieve. There is no time limit on grief. There are, however, warning signs of when help is warranted. Many do not understand these principles and suffer further as a consequence. Reconciling grief and acceptance of life as it is and as it will be is a more recent concept than formally seeking ‘closure’. “Moving from loving in the present to loving in memory” (Wolfet 2019) is a necessary transitional phase. Simple things such as knowing the various options people have when their pet dies and how they can best celebrate and memorialise the life of a pet will help people understand and move forward with life after losing a special friend. Today there are many therapies to help people in their grief and a knowledge of what is locally available will always be of benefit to the grieving client. This topic is endless, and this presentation seeks only to whet the trainer’s appetite to know more about how this knowledge can be incorporated into daily practice. Learning Objectives To briefly understand the complexities of pet bereavement To gain a brief understanding of types and stages of grief To be aware that grief is age sensitive. Children, adults, and more elderly adults experience it in different ways. To appreciate the depth of grief that some animals feel at the loss of a household member, whether that is two or four-legged, winged or other. To understand the difference between closure and reconciling and accepting grief. Gain insight into how they can best help their clients based on the client’s needs.

Sponsor:Pet Professional Guild
Speaker(s):Debra Millikan

Contact: Rebekah King
 Email: events@petprofessionalguild.com
 Web: https://www.petprofessionalguild.com/webinars-events/webinars/pet-bereavement-precis-of-a-complex-jo